of sex issue

we always been told not to be sexist.
gender equalization and whatnot.

tapi at the same time, pergaulan bebas perlu dielakkan.
keruntuhan sosial n moral is a thing we shouldn't take part into.

thing is.. no matter how the world is talking and presenting the statistic on how women outnumbered men in general, i always found it differently.
i have more brothers that sisters, i have more uncles than aunts..
i have more guy friends than girl friends
i had had more male colleagues than the female ones.

is it me doing n fancy for things less lady-like?
is it my field n interest that requires me mingle with more non female species?

now if i were to be at somewhere for good reason, not merely berhibur n lagha.. say its kinda work that i liked
what do i do if.. the majority is not-female.. or.. if.. no other female?
whereby there might be a limited resource which practically means that we also have to share..
will u accept to bear with the challenge and survive anyway
or
just reject the owh-soo-long-awaited opportunity just because u care about the perception of others
or
is it the moral value that u have to stick to?

which one sounds like the more right thing to do?